When we lose someone, itโs natural to want to express our condolences and support for the grieving family. But before clicking that link to "send flowers" or "plant a tree" on a funeral homeโs website, pause and ask a few questions:
Where is that tree actually being planted?
Is it truly being planted, or is it just a digital transaction?
What do you and the family get in return other than a receipt and a small blurb?
The truth is, while these gestures seem meaningful, they often come with a hefty price tag, and much of that money might not even benefit the family directly. Funeral homes charge high premiums for these services, yet they may do little beyond the transaction itself.
Instead, letโs focus on gestures that truly help the grieving. Here are some ideas that go further than a tree or flowers bought online:
โจ Offer to bring food: Sometimes, a home-cooked meal can provide comfort that money canโt buy.
โจ Check in on them: A phone call or visit to help out with daily tasks, like running errands or watching kids, can mean the world.
โจ Lend an ear: Grief is complicated, and sometimes, people just need someone to talk to. Simply being there can be the greatest gift of all.
Itโs easy to feel like the only way to show your love is through a purchase, but letโs remember the power of human connection. The next time you want to offer your support, think about what the family truly needs in this difficult time. Sometimes, itโs the small, personal gestures that make the biggest difference. โค๏ธ
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